Although women aren't thought of as being filthy-minded and horny, their true feelings may go deeper than our initial perception. Many girls are very sexually oriented, whether we see it or not. Believe it or not, women have those animal urges to have wild, meaningless sex just like guys do. However, what they think and what they actually do are two different things, but your "friend" status may be the key to unlocking their wildest fantasies. Paying special attention to some of your closer, hot friends could pay off big, if sex is what you're interested in. This studying process is the first step.

If you're interested in a girl, and you have been friends for a while, you're in a much better position than a complete stranger. Most girls like to hang out with guys because they know that potential is there. In order to spark that sexual fire, you must first find out if your potential can stand up to the boyfriend test. If she can see you in this light, then you definatley have a chance. While getting to know her as a good friend, be sure to pay specific attention to the type of guy she is currently dating. See if you have many similaries to these guys. If you can, ask her about her past boyfriends. Find out what she liked, and didn't like about them. You can see what likes were similar to yourself, as well as avoiding the dislikes. Next you need the right time and place to find out if you can be more than friends.

After learning a lot about a girl, the right setting or good timing can give you a better chance of having that "moment". If you often joke about sex, and have established physical contact in a "friend" way, you need the right situation to establish a differentiation. Let's say that you used to joke with her about going to her place after being out. Maybe one night after a party, and a few drinks, you walk her back to her place. You need to integrate the familiar playful side, with the serious side. Instead of pulling the joking routine, just smile, and say "it's hard for me to say this, but I've been feeling really comfortable around you lately. Do you mind if I come up and talk?" Maybe you have been hugging earlier as "friends", and you end up watching tv on the couch, or in her bedroom. Use that soft, "friendly" touch, but be sure to make it noticeably different , so she'll get the signal. A soft hand on her neck and ears are a good example. The last issue in going from bud to stud is getting approval.

After you've done your homework and you've found the right time to communicate your interest in her, you need to get a signal from her. Although you can set things up right, there's no go until she says so. You need to pay attention to numerous signals that she will give off that will let you know if it's ok or not. She probably won't come out and say it, so signal reading is important. One major way to see a sexual build-up towards you is in her eyes. Watch to see if her gaze is sensual, and if it has a look of more than just fun. Another female signal dates back to gradeschool. If you had a crush on someone you would show it thru excesive physical stimulation. If she touches you a lot, you can probably hit the spot. Lastly, a joking signal should be read carefully. If she seems to be reiterating a joke about doing it later, or doing sexual acts, it could be what's really on her mind. Use your moment to find out, and close the deal.

Although some of these tips may not work in every case, the basic concepts of researching, making the move, and getting the signal are often times passed by. If you follow these steps, and add some of your own ingenuity, you will increase your chances of going from just buds, to bed buds. Good Luck!!!